The Blog of a Plus Size Girl

I'm just a plus sized girl living in a Barbie sized world.
To the person I’m posting this for. I am glad you’re still here. You know who you are…

To the person I’m posting this for. I am glad you’re still here. You know who you are…

(via beaversnrainbows)

Tumblr Staff: A New Policy Against Self-Harm Blogs

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One of the great things about Tumblr is that people use it for just about every conceivable kind of expression. People being people, though, that means that Tumblr sometimes gets used for things that are just wrong. We are deeply committed to supporting and defending our users’ freedom of speech,…

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  • Me: *turns on radio*
  • Taylor Swift: feels feels feels revenge slut-shaming more feels you broke my heart and now I'm making a catchy country tune about it yeah yeah yeah acoustic guitar
  • Bruno Mars: suicidal thoughts and plaid and war zones and gratuitous morphine use pain angst hurt for some reason all my songs involve me unnecessarily dying for you
  • Rihanna: no one cares what I'm singing about but you can assume it's a shitty metaphor for sex while I gyrate in little to no clothing on fake animals but at least it's stupidly catchy
  • Every single rap artist: bitches hoes in da club lots of money she wants the dick all these songs are about clubbing and sex and does anyone honestly live this lifestyle outside of music videos
  • Nicki Minaj: hkjhkjhcw fweljfhwjhddljhd hfojencojen nieukjdh lots of fast talking in a weird accent ha ha ha pop culture reference I'm a feminist with lots of wigs and in case you haven't noticed BIG BOOBS I don't even know what I'm rapping about lol
  • Me: *turns off radio*

radangel90 asked: Hi, I'm wondering if you could give me some advice. I reciently started a relationship, with a man that has never been involved with a plus sized girl, phisically nor emotionally. I feel intimitated, in a since. Should I? He tells me everyday, multiple times a day that he loves me and would do anything for me. I still feel like I'm being compaired to his exes. Is there really a way that he could love me?

Absolutely! I’m sure you’ve heard it but a lot of men find confidence in a woman to be sexiest. You may be plus sized but I’m sure he see’s in you something he can’t find in any of his “skinny” exes. He’s with you for a reason. My man and I have been having problems because I’m self conscious as well. Since we’ve date I’ve gained 50 lbs and I felt like he didn’t find me attractive anymore. But he looks me dead in the eye and tells me he doesn’t care. He loves me for who I am and thinks I’m beautiful. Believe it or not, there are men out there who are not shallow. Sure they’ll go through those stages, but we’re the ones real men end up with. ;)

Smiling has been easier since I found him. <3 Hold on to your loved ones even when it’s disfunctional…

Smiling has been easier since I found him. <3 Hold on to your loved ones even when it’s disfunctional…

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